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There’s your best friend… and then there’s your wedding planner

Post author By sclarke
Post date June 7, 2017

When you start planning out your wedding, you will probably involve two people aside from your husband-to-be. They will be your best friend and your mother. After all, even though your groom will have an important say over the big things, it is usually women who look after all the details involved in planning such an important event. Men tend to be more… distracted, about flower arrangements, wedding favors and other wedding related topics.

Considering this, you will probably use your mother’s and best friend’s help for a number of decisions you’ll have to make, however, there is one other person who will be extremely important in your wedding planning process. This would be your wedding planner. If you don’t have a planner yet, don’t worry, you are still in time and you will surely be able to get a really good one. One of the most important things you should consider when doing so is that it should be someone you absolutely trust. If there is good chemistry and you are happy and satisfied with the way she helps you around all the preparations leading up to the big day, you will surely find yourself at your party simply enjoying it. This means you won’t even think twice about issues or last minute details, because you’ll know she has got you covered. And this is why your wedding planner will be as important as your mother and best friend.

She will not only be able to help you, she will also be there for the groom and for your mother and best friend and anyone else who is involved in the wedding planning. As such, you should make sure you select her carefully, and if you don’t feel comfortable with your wedding planner, don’t hesitate to talk about it and find a solution.

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Make Your Ceremony Unique

Post author By sclarke
Post date May 17, 2017

A wedding is supposed to be all about the couple getting married. Each person will bring different things into the relationship and, as separate beings, they will have different likes and tastes and this is a great opportunity to combine both personalities in order to create an event that will not only reflect who you are as people and as a couple, but will also turn your wedding into an event no one will forget.

There are a number of wedding ceremony ideas that can reflect who you are and provide both you, your partner and all of your guests with a different experience than the traditional wedding. One great idea that people don’t often do is having a guest book where your guests can write down their best wishes for you both. Another idea is, instead of using a traditional pillow to carry the rings, use something original, like a book you both love or have your pet bring them to you.

Sky lanterns are a great idea for everyone in the party to participate and it will provide an extremely romantic moment as you stand, watching the lanterns float away, embracing your partner.

One great option is creating a wedding time capsule. In it, you can place both significant things from the wedding and letters from family and friends, to be opened up in 5 or 10 years, depending on how patient you are. When the time to open the box arrives, it will bring back a lot of memories from such a special day. One alternative option is writing love letters to one another and saving them for a day when you’ve had a big fight. When you read the letters written on your wedding day, it will help you remember why you are together and you will be more than willing to work things out.

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Making Things Flow

Post author By sclarke
Post date May 10, 2017

As a woman on your wedding day, your mind should be solely focused on enjoying such a special day with your partner, family, friends and everyone you care for. It should all be about you two and your love for each other and you shouldn’t have to worry about a thing. As the date of the wedding approached, you might have hired a wedding planner to help you work out all the details, or you might have managed things on your own (or with your partner), either way, this kind of professional’s help can be of great value.

The thing is that, even if you did get help from someone who makes a living out of doing so, things change when the day of the wedding arrives. She would have left everything set up for success but that would be the end of her job. Luckily, there are also wedding coordinators. A wedding coordinator can help you make sure everything works out as it should during the event itself. This person can make a huge difference because she will allow you to focus fully on enjoying yourself, trusting that everything will be taken care of. This is especially important for the mother of the bride as well, helping her relax and enjoy the moment.

A wedding coordinator will take care of things before you even know something went amiss, what’s more, you probably will never even find out about those things that happened because you will be too busy with your partner and guests. In a wedding coordinator you will be able to find exactly the person who will ensure that everything goes as planned and you will get to enjoy this day you’ve been dreaming about for so long.

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Your Dream Venue in Connecticut

Post author By sclarke
Post date May 3, 2017

One of the most important parts entailed in the planning of a wedding, and one of the first decisions you’ll have to make, is finding the perfect venue where you will hold it. Couples have all kinds of tastes in venues, but Connecticut wedding venues are something that can bring more value and fulfill the dreams of anyone who is getting prepared to get married.

From farms, to lake houses, a castle, resorts, inns and even vineyards, the Connecticut wedding venues available for weddings can help you turn that day into a real fairytale. In this state, you will be able to find numerous options and there will surely be one that fits your needs, wants and even your budget.

Closing the venue is one of the biggest and most important steps because it will help you lock down the date. Once you do this, you will be able to send out Save the Date notifications to all the people you will be inviting, and you will be able to start working on the catering, decorations, music, the dress, and everything else that comes with this big celebration.

If you are looking for a more classy and indoor wedding, you will also be able to find a few really nice spots in Connecticut like the Society Room of Hartford or the Aria where elegance and class won’t be missing. If you are more interested in an outdoor wedding with a spectacular view that can provide pictures you will always be proud of, you might want to consider checking out the lake houses or places such as the Candlewood Inn or the Lyman Orchards. If you are looking for something with a bit more significance, check out the Stafford Place Theater, a very unique and particular place that will turn your wedding into the talk of town!

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The Right Providers

Post author By sclarke
Post date April 26, 2017

If you are planning your wedding, you are probably aware of the million details you need to take care of and decide over before the big day. If you are an organized person, you probably started out with the big things, like the venue and the church (in case you are getting married in a church) and then moved on to other things.

No matter what part of the wedding you are working on, you should always make sure you have the right vendors providing the service or product you need. A lot of people hire general vendors for their weddings however, with so many specialized wedding vendors, you might be better off hiring one of the latter. Make sure you can always trust your wedding vendors.

Finding Wedding Vendors in CT

Wedding vendors are easy to find in Connecticut so if you’re planning to get married in the area, you shouldn’t have any issues finding the right ones. Make sure you have a clear idea about what you are looking for. You might find yourself making different choices along the way, but coming in with a clear idea will always help vendors offer you what you need or at least something that is close to that initial idea. This will also help you avoid extra costs while they take advantage of you not knowing.

Coordinating the Vendors

Once you have decided on the vendors you will hire, make sure you put them all in contact with the venue so that they can talk about details and you are completely sure that they will be able to get there on time, be allowed in and have the contact for any kind of issues. This is a very important step that a lot of people don’t even think about. Make sure you plan ahead to avoid any issues on the day of your wedding when that’s the last thing you’ll want to be worrying about.

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The Day After

Post author By sclarke
Post date April 12, 2017

One of the most emotional and important days in a woman’s life is the day when her partner gets down on one knee and asks her to marry him. This day should be perfect and magical and everything you have ever dreamed of. After this, the next thing in your mind is probably the wedding day, however, there is a long and exciting process in the in between that you should take the chance to enjoy.

Wedding Preparations

Planning a wedding itself can be stressful at times, especially as the big day approaches, but every bride-to-be should relish in the moment and enjoy every step of the way. There are a number of details that go into making sure the wedding turns out as perfect as you’ve always imagined it so make sure you give yourself (and your partner) enough time to enjoy the wedding preparations.

The Church and the Venue

The church and the venue for the party are two of the most important things so you might want to start with them. Once you have this set, you will be able to go into details. Try to make sure they are close to each other and even look at options for marriage within the venue itself rather than having to move from one place to another.

The Party

Most of the wedding preparations go into the party. You’ll need to decide whether you want live music or a DJ, flowers or other kind of decorations on the tables, the menu, the cake and even whether you will give your guests some kind of favor. Take the time to talk things through with your partner to make sure you are both getting what you want and always remember that this party is supposed to be about celebrating your love for each other so personal details will always make it much nicer!

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Wedding Flowers: Artificial or Real?

Post author By sclarke
Post date March 22, 2017

One of the huge pieces of your big day is your wedding flowers. While you’re planning your wedding, you want to make sure that you’ve taken into consideration the flowers for the day. You have to choose wedding vendors for a variety of items, including your flowers. One of the biggest things you need to consider is the budget you want to allot for the flowers. Do you want to go with artificial or real? Who needs to have flowers?

All of these questions play into what type of flowers you’ll have and how many. Here are some ideas to get you started.

Budget First

Make sure you decide on what you want to spend on flowers. Are you a true flower lover? Then you’re going to probably want to allot more to flowers than the person who is not as big on flowers as decoration. Pick your budget up front to help guide in type and amount.

Who Needs Flowers?

Decide on who will carry flowers and where you want them to be displayed throughout the wedding and reception. Are you going to use flowers as centerpieces on reception tables or are you going to go with candles or lights? Make a list of those who will need them to carry and to wear on their clothing to distinguish them from others at the ceremony.

Silk and Real Can Go Together

Remember, you can always use a mixture to keep your budget in line. If you prefer your bouquet to be real but need to cut the budget, your bridesmaids can have silk arrangements. Also remember that real flowers can have issues on the day of the wedding so silk may be a better solution to have peace of mind.

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Themed Wedding Ideas

Post author By sclarke
Post date March 15, 2017

So, you’re engaged and ready to plan the big day. Have you already had a plan in mind? Does your fiancé have the same idea? One key point to remember in wedding planning is that there are two of you in this event. Make sure you and your spouse do this together and your day is sure to be a lovely one. One exciting way to plan your wedding day is to plan a themed wedding. If you and your spouse-to-be both enjoy a specific theme, then it’s even easier to plan.

Here are a few themed wedding ideas you and your fiancé can look over to see what fits your personalities best.

Rustic Setting

Are both of you big nature lovers? Would you prefer to be out on a hike instead of inside somewhere? Then a rustic themed wedding may be the best idea for you. Talk with your wedding caterer to learn about the woodland wedding cakes you could choose. Set up an outdoor setting for your wedding and you can use pinecones, flowers, and twigs in each of the flower centerpieces. Don’t forget to tie in your wedding invitations as well so the rustic theme is carried throughout.

Beach Setting

Are you and your spouse mermaids with legs? The beach setting is perfect for your wedding day! When you’re planning a beach theme, you can go for a more casual setting where everyone is barefoot or you can choose to include all the elegant elements you would have in a church or reception hall wedding. You can use lovely blues and pastel colors to work with your theme in everything from invitations to the cake itself.

From vintage style to a fun Halloween themed wedding, make your day your own by working with your fiancé and dreaming up the magic.

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4 Wedding Cake Trends for The Upcoming Year

Post author By sclarke
Post date March 8, 2017

When you think of the reception, the huge centerpiece that is on everyone’s mind is the wedding cake. During your wedding planning, you may have tried tons of different types of cakes and are sure you know which one you want. On the other hand, you may still be searching for that perfect wedding cake for your special day. Here are four wedding cake trends to keep an eye on this year for your big day.

Painted Wedding Cakes

For a unique look, choose beautifully painted wedding cake. These can have a stained-glass effect that is very elegant or even a marbleized looking using the colors of your wedding day. You can also choose one that looks like it was inspired by Monet. These are lovely choices for any wedding and add a sense of unique character.

Woodland Cakes

These go great if you and your spouse love the outdoors or you simply want a more natural type of setting for your wedding. Beautiful vines and wooden accents make a lovely centerpiece for your wedding reception. Flowers adorn the cake just to add a simple touch of elegance.

Naked Cakes

Yes. These are a real centerpiece for your reception. These cakes show what waits on the inside of the cake itself instead of having it covered with a lot of icing. It is a great way to make your cake stand out and look inviting to all.

Cupcakes as the Cake

There are even trends using cupcakes or the pull apart cakes for your wedding cake centerpiece. They a fun way for everyone to get a perfectly sized piece of your cake and to add some whimsy to your big day.

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3 Tips to Keep Your Cool During Your Wedding Planning

Post author By sclarke
Post date March 1, 2017

Your wedding day is one of the most special days of your entire life. You have dreamed about this day for as long as you can remember, and now you’re ready to plan it officially. What do you do when all of the excitement turns into anxiety because of meetings with caterers, photographers, and making decisions on your honeymoon? Here are three tips to help you keep your sanity during the hustle and bustle of all your wedding planning days.

Remember Your Groom

Don’t make them take a backseat to the planning. Be sure to include him in everything you’re doing, except the wedding dress shopping. He is there to help you through this and you must remember you’re not alone. Also, make sure you make time for you two to hang out together and talk about anything except for the wedding. You need to keep your connection and be together without wedding talk.

Make a Plan

Get yourself a plan together for the big day and all those days leading up to it. Surround yourself with your friends and family you know you can count on and delegate specific details to them. For example, have someone designated with a cell phone on the big day in case anyone is lost on the way to the venue. They have someone they can contact that is ready to help them get to your big day.

Consider a Hotel Stay

The night before your wedding rent a hotel room for you and just you. This will give you some time to yourself to relax, do Yoga if you want, or just breathe before the big day. Be sure to take care of yourself and make time for yourself. Then you’re sure to be ready to enjoy the day ahead!

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